Whatever Works Podcast

Monitor Your Body

Monitor your body by counting your steps, checking the quality of your sleep, and measuring your calorie intake. These techniques can help you pinpoint the weaknesses in your health regime and determine what you need to change to reach your goals.

Nutritional Supplements

Supplements can be helpful to fill in gaps in your diet or lifestyle. Many of us don’t eat enough vegetables, ingest the right amount of iron, or consume enough essential vitamins like B12 or D. When you know you’re not eating as many vegetables or fresh fruits as you should, for whatever reason, you can take them in pill form.

Twelve Rules for Life

In a postmodern world, we may find it difficult to identify and hold on to strong moral values. This can be especially true for atheists, who often struggle to find meaning and grapple with nihilism. Without values and principles to anchor us, the world can look excessively chaotic. Adopting some rules can help tip the scales in the other direction, fashioning order from the chaos.

The Way of the Superior Man

The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida is a guide for men, encouraging them to get in touch with themselves and live in alignment with their true nature. David Deida’s approach can help men in a range of relationships, in finding their sense of purpose, and in leveling up their presence with women.

Ethical Nonmonogamy

Nonmonogamy is based on the idea that it’s possible to love and have relations with more than one person and that when we acknowledge this, we open ourselves up to new ways of living. It is not the same as cheating on your spouse or partner because in ethical nonmonogamy, every participant is aware of the situation and participates with full, informed consent.

Respect Others' Autonomy When Offering Advice

If you can give advice generously and accept that others will do as they see fit, you can rest easy knowing that you have offered guidance, whether or not they choose to act on it. This protects your relationship and also leaves the door open for them to choose whether and when to apply your counsel.

Mega Threads

Mega Threads—long threads of online communication—can help you process your thoughts slower. With this technique, there’s almost no limit to the depth of your response to a particular issue, so you have quite a lot of room to express yourself fully and to be heard.

Use a Talking Stick

When you find yourself in an environment where people are frequently interrupting each other, using a talking stick can help to eliminate interruptions, increasing the quality and depth of the conversation.

Allow Yourself to Rest

Life is about more than what we create, and some of the most important elements of being human can’t be measured and optimized. By taking an occasional break from the pressure to produce, you can open up space to nurture relationships with yourself and others and feel more complete and rounded.

If You See a Job, It's Yours

Complaining doesn't resolve anything. Taking action, or otherwise initiating a solution, can both fix the problem at hand and alleviate negative emotions, as well as inspire others to be proactive about tackling problems they see.